From a wedding at Coggshall Farm last May. Still one of my favorite portrait sessions.


From a wedding at Coggshall Farm last May. Still one of my favorite portrait sessions.


Today I read an article in the NY Times about a US Marine who handed two family photo albums to his Vietnam buddy. Forty years later, his widow is trying to return those albums to their family. To me, family history is one of the most interesting aspects of photography, and wedding photography in particular. I remember reading in Diane Arbus’ biography that she was sort of obsessed with her personal family photographs. I can relate to that.
One of Peter and my favorite things to do is to shop at thrift stores and flea markets. It’s amazing how often I’ll find old wedding and family photos at these places. If you search eBay for “vintage wedding photos” or “vintage photos” you’ll get tons of hits. I think it’s sad that these photos don’t know their families — or vice versa.
Sometimes I think about how my love of family documents and old photographs is part of why I love photographing weddings. My family photos are one of my dearest treasures, and I hope that the wedding photos I take for clients become part of their family treasures too.
A few years ago I scanned over 1,000 of my family’s photographs, slides, negatives, and postcards and I thought I would share a few here. The first one is a postcard photo of my Uncle John (pictured center on left) just before he went off to WWI. The back of the card reads: “I don’t know where I’m going, but I am on my way.” Luckily he did return from the war and lived a long life. The man in the oval portrait — Uncle Thomas — wasn’t so lucky and never returned from WWI. He would write postcards to his sister (my great-grandmother), that were addressed: “Little Girl.” She’s in a few of these photos too. I love the one of her and her friend with their giant bouffant hair-dos.
Fortunately I know the people and stories behind most of these photos. Many of the WWII photos are of my grandparents, and the tintype photo is an uncle on my father’s side. The woman dressed as a gypsy for Halloween is my Aunt Myra, who I got to meet and know when she was older. Since we’ve lost some of the context, a few of the photos are just plain strange and I have no idea why they were taken. Although sometimes those are the ones I find most interesting: a photo of a child’s empty bedroom, a female torso standing next to a dying poinsettia plant, a television in a dark room.
I’ll leave it to you to figure out which of these photos includes me.![]()
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Is that you in img283_edited? The eyes are unmistakably yours!February 4, 2010 – 5:32 pm
Yes Shang, that’s me. You got one of them.February 4, 2010 – 5:34 pm
I have a few of these from my own family – I love them – treasure them and display them… wonderful post -February 4, 2010 – 7:21 pm
The NY Times article also struck a nerve with me. I have my grandfather’s cruise books from his aircraft carrier during WWII and the letters and photos he and my grandmother sent each other during that time. There was one letter she wrote to him that I read every month to remind myself of how easy we have it. She wrote to tell him about his mother’s death and how it had been a tough three months with the death of their 3 year old son from scarlet fever and the death of their daughter at birth. It’s hard to fathom what the courageous people of those times went through.February 5, 2010 – 1:17 am
Lisa,
My father and grandfather, Arturo and Jose Ferreira, started one of New Bedford’s first photo studios, Arcade Photo on Acushnet Avenue. For year’s we have collected old Arcade photos from yard sales all over Bristol County. These brides and graduates and newly christened babes haven’t lost their families, just found their way into ours.
TFebruary 5, 2010 – 3:58 am
I recently photographed Jessica and Rob’s engagement session in the Back Bay area of Boston. Their wedding is this June at the Boston Public Garden, with a reception at the Colonnade Hotel. And yes, their dog “Biscuit” will be part of the festivities on that day as well!
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Peter and I spent the weekend in NYC. We pretty much spent the whole time on the Lower East Side: stayed at the Thompson LES, ate dinner at Congee Village, and Peter performed two nights at the Bowery Ballroom. Even though it was possibly the coldest weekend yet this winter, we had a fabulous time!
Whenever I go on “vacation,” I rarely photograph as much as I’d like. I’m too busy living in the moment, which is hard to do when you’re trying to document moments. Anyway, here are a few photos from this weekend. Check out our room at the Thompson LES — with floor to ceiling windows it was amazing! We booked it through Tablet, which I highly recommend for great deals on funky hotels.
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Great photos – I love the one of your bed, it looks like such a hip place to sleep
February 2, 2010 – 1:44 am
Today I ordered new sample albums and went through some wedding photos from this summer… I liked these as a series.


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I love photographing wedding rings. I usually ask the couple if I can photograph their rings during dinner. Sometimes they offer their hands and say “Sure!” at which point I inform them “No, you need to take them off.” I actually feel bad about that. They just put them on and I’m asking them to take them off! But off of the hands is the only way I like to photograph wedding rings.
I guess the easiest and safest way for me to carry the rings would be to put them on a finger. I don’t do that however, because I have a superstition about wearing wedding rings that aren’t meant for you. So instead I rush hurriedly across the reception room with my hands enclosing the rings, and over to a mini “studio” that I’ve set up in a corner, a hallway, or even (once) under the stairs. Ten minutes later when I bring the rings back to my clients, they have no idea how I’ve photographed them. I tell them: “You’ll see in the photos. It’ll be a surprise.”
For almost all of these shots, I used the Canon EF 100mm f/2.8 macro.

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Gorgeous! Ok now I want a Canon EF 100mm f/2.8!
January 25, 2010 – 12:01 am
These are gorgeous photographs! Not to mention beautiful rings : )January 25, 2010 – 12:30 am
How?!
Beautiful!January 26, 2010 – 2:24 pm
wow, Image 8 is sooooooo beautiful!January 26, 2010 – 5:29 pm
Hmmm, i’ll have to make sure you have plenty of great props and textures to sneak away to….
. Love the idea of a surprise!January 30, 2010 – 1:42 am
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Me too! I love the new blog/site!January 24, 2010 – 5:43 am
Can’t wait to meet with you this week Melissa! We have a lot to talk about.
January 24, 2010 – 4:20 pm
me too!!!
January 24, 2010 – 11:57 pm
Caroline and Kuan Ju’s wedding at City Hall in Cambridge was my first wedding of 2010. There were eight guests, and they came from the West Coast and England to witness the small ceremony and beautiful day.
What makes a great wedding? All you really need are two people willing to commit to each other, the few people who care most about them, an officiant to marry them, and a lot of love. I love small weddings!
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What an adorable couple! Love the warm feeling of Cambridge City Hall. Who knew? Also-the fact that they took the train might be my favorite part of all of it.January 20, 2010 – 3:09 pm
Looks like all available light! Great Job. I love the images. Keep it up.
January 20, 2010 – 5:14 pm
Aww I love this couple! Love the photojournalism!January 21, 2010 – 2:07 am
This was amazing!! Nothing over-the-top, just 2 people in love surrounded by family and friends. They will cherish these pictures forever. Great job.January 21, 2010 – 5:46 am
These are stunning photos – the faces you captured, the small city details…January 29, 2010 – 8:52 pm
You might have landed on this page because you googled “Moraine Farm wedding” or “Boston engagement photography.” If you’re a client, you might be wondering where my old website went. And if you’re a blog reader or subscribe in RSS, you might have noticed that you can no longer access my old blog page. What is going on?
Welcome to my “new” wedding photography website! It’s really just my old blog pushed out front as the main website. I keep track of how clients find me, and discovered that half of my clients came to me through searching for terms that were on the blog. I also noticed that the blog was getting about three times the traffic as my portfolio page. So voila! If you landed here based on a search term such as “Langham Hotel wedding,” you can still find what you’re looking for by using the Search feature in the menu above.
It’s more interactive.
Having the blog as the main page puts the interactive elements of my web presence right out front, which I love. But sadly, as I was transferring my blog to the new page I lost all comments I’d received in the past six weeks. Sniff. And there were some good ones. So as always, please feel free to comment!
It’s got funky features + dynamic photo viewing.
Although the “new” blog looks basically the same as the old one, it has some new features which I’m pretty excited about. Dynamic flash slideshows and featured galleries, lightbox viewing, facebook widgets, and a few other interactive features that I haven’t even had time to toy around with yet.
Please update your RSS feeds.
If you were a subscriber to the old blog please update your RSS feeds so that you an view all the latest and greatest wedding photography. And if you weren’t a subscriber, please become one! The RSS feed thingy is in the menu above.
Flash slideshows…


Lightbox viewing… just makes the photos look cool.


Facebook fan page!


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i love this idea lisa! ive seen a lot of photographers going this route and its very smart i think! cant wait to see some blog posts in 2010!!
hopefully we get to work together again too
January 18, 2010 – 5:06 pm
2009 was an amazing, insane, wonderful year. One year ago I knew what I wanted to do: become a full-time wedding photographer. I read Malcolm Gladwell’s theory about 10,000 hours of practice and how the Beatles were transformed after playing non-stop gigs in Germany. I thought “2009 will be my Germany!” So from February through December I photographed 38 weddings… 18 engagement sessions… 5 portrait sessions, and took over 85,000 photographs. In the process, I left my full-time day job in communications and transitioned to my dream job of full-time photographer.
As I look back on the past year, I wanted to share a few decisions I made in 2009. These are promises that I made to myself at the start of last year, and they helped me start my business and thrive in 2009. And because a blog post on a photography blog isn’t fun without photos, I’ve interspersed some of my favorite “crazy dancing photos” of 2009. I am actually working on my “crazy dancing photo” skills, so I can get even better at taking these kinds of photos. I told you this was my dream job!
1. Don’t make business decisions based on fear. While owning your own business and being self-employed is rewarding, it can at times be a bit scary. So I promised myself that I would never make a business decision out of fear. Fear of competition, fear that I wouldn’t be able to master new techniques, or fear that people might not hire me. Being aware of the market, competition, and your own limitations is one thing. But making business decisions based on fear is another. Instead of acting on fear and doubt, I acted on reason and my vision of where I wanted to go and what I wanted the business to be.


2. Don’t be afraid to put yourself out there. I spent years keeping much of my personality and interests under wraps at the office. I decided that if I was ever lucky enough to have my own business I wouldn’t be afraid to say who I was and talk about kinds of things that interest me and what I believed in. Those of you who follow my blog, flickr page, or twitter stream might already know that I support gay marriage, campaigned for Obama, love The Huffington Post, Rachel Maddow, and Steve Colbert. I love the 1960’s and 1970’s, Turner Classic Movies, and documentaries. I have 15,000+ songs in my iTunes library and most of it is soundtracks and post-punk and other stuff most people have probably never heard of. Surprisingly, talking about these things actually helped me to connect with clients who related to my photographs. Not to say that all of my clients are interested in the same things that I am, but as a whole they’re a pretty diverse group of people who I am happy to know. I’ve even made a few new friends.


3. Don’t think you can go it alone. Just because the business is titled “Lisa Rigby Photography” doesn’t mean that I could completely go it alone. Yes, handing certain tasks over to others meant that things might be done in a way that’s different than what I would do. But it also freed me to concentrate on the things that I’m good at: developing relationships with clients and taking more photos. So I hired trusted professionals to design my logo, build my website, and fulfill print orders. I hired second shooters when we needed additional coverage to achieve a client’s vision. And I connected with other wedding photographers who could share their knowledge and help me book a few more jobs along the way.


4. Don’t be afraid to admit mistakes. I realized that being my first full-year in business, 2009 would be a year of trial and error. Am I perfect? Far from it! Did I make mistakes in 2009? You bet! I find that people are usually pretty forgiving if you admit where you could have done better or when you’ve made a genuine mistake. I mean, how many of us bat 100%, 100% of the time? It just can’t be done! So I am still trying to do my best, learn from mistakes, and always inspire confidence and trust in my clients. Which brings me to my next personal rule…


5. Always inspire trust. This is a hard one. It has to do with everything from the speed with which you respond to emails, to your frankness and honesty in dealing with potential clients at meetings, to how you handle photographing an outdoor session when it’s starting to rain. Inspiring people to trust someone with one of the most important aspects of one of their most important days isn’t small stuff. But you’ll only get that beautiful portrait if the client knows and trusts that they’re in good hands. And you’ll only get that referral to another couple if a past client trusts that you’ll do good work for their friends too.


6. Don’t mistake expensive equipment and technical hoo-ha for good work. Yes I have really nice photography equipment. I could really go crazy and keep buying new camera doo-dads forever. But I’m really not a technical shooter. I can’t say enough about how much client relationships, trust, vision, and studying art (beyond photography) shapes the photographs as much as any piece of equipment. If anything, we should learn to work the hell out of the equipment we have, which brings me to…


7. Keep learning. I still haven’t gotten to 10,000 hours of “practice” as a wedding photographer, but I figure I’m about a third of the way there.
All along the way I am constantly trying to find better ways to do things — better ways to shoot, different ways to use light, more streamlined ways of processing. I realize that as long as I’m in the business and for as long as I want to continue to grow, this learning will never end. Thankfully learning new tricks one of the most fun aspects of this job.
In addition to learning new skills in 2010, I am totally excited about some of my new clients and all of the fun and cool 2010 weddings I’m photographing around Boston and beyond. I blogged a run-down a few weeks ago. So I’ll see you in Boston and Rhode Island and California and Ireland next year.
Happy New Year!






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